I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you feel things you never felt before. And I hope you see things that startle you. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. There’s no time limit, stop whenever you want. “For what it’s worth: it’s never too late or, in my case, too early to be whoever you want to be.Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” – Lao Tzu Don’t resist them that only creates sorrow. “Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes.I hope it will inspire you □ Enjoy! It’s a time for a change! Here you are- my favourite top quotes about change □ To get you started on the positive way to introduce change in your life, I put together a list of top quotes about change. Everyone is different and different things will motivate you to change. It could be a particular event, book which you read recently, a song or maybe a talk with a good friend. While this wisdom is true for organizations and businesses, let's remember, in honor of Valentine's Day, that it is also true for all of the significant relationships in our lives.Sometimes you need a trigger to make a change – you need this last straw that will push you to action. Growth is what is optional, it only happens with our consent and when we make the decision to grow. We don't have to make a decision for change to happen. All significant relationships require both people committing to working on the relationship, in order for it to grow and mature.Ĭhange is inevitable. When it comes to relationships, if the two individuals in the relationship want the feelings of love without committing to the decision to do the work, it is bound to fail. Now imagine, the person added, "And I would like to receive these results without having to work at it, without feeling any discomfort as part of the process." It is easy to see that this is not going to work. Imagine a person walking into their local gym and saying to a personal trainer, " I want to get stronger, more flexible, and overall just get in better shape." The trainer would, of course, respond that they could help with that. If love is primarily about feelings, then what do we do when the feelings naturally ebb and flow? Understanding that mature love is a decision is what helps us commit to persevering and growing, especially when we are experiencing challenges in our relationships and are not currently experiencing a lot of the feelings of love. It is so important to remember this in the midst of the constant images and messages we get through television and movies that focus primarily on love as a feeling. One of my favorite bits of wisdom to share when counseling young couples is that love is much more than a feeling and that actually, love is primarily a decision. The same is true when both people in a relationship are willing to treat problems as opportunities to gain new knowledge and skills. What does a committed student do when they come up against a problem they don't understand or can't solve? They work harder to figure it out, and in the process, they grow in their skill and knowledge. Growth occurs when both people can see conflict and difficult times simply as occasions and opportunities for growth and for learning new individual and relationship skills. Growth only happens when both people in any relationship are committed to the ongoing emotional and spiritual growth that a mature relationship requires. Why? Because, as the Maxwell quote says, growth is optional. While every relationship experiences change over time, not all relationships experience growth. This is true of all relationships, whether they be with family, friends, or if they are romantic. In honor of Valentine's Day approaching, though, I would like to reflect on its meaning as it pertains to love and relationships.Īll relationships change, because change is inevitable. Maxwell writes leadership books and so it is natural that the wisdom of this quote is often applied to organizations and businesses. Growth is optional" from author John Maxwell, is one of my favorites.
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